My rapist confessed, but he can’t be charged (column)

PENNSYLVANIA
York Daily Record

Kristen Pfautz Woolley June 22, 2016

The Catholic Church and others stand in the way of reforming Pa.’s child sex abuse statute of limitations.

I am not Catholic.

I am a survivor of child sexual abuse. From the ages 10-12, I was repeatedly violated by a man my parents trusted. My abuse only ended when my abuser became engaged to be married. I remember feeling relief that my nightmare was over; now someone else would take care of my abuser’s sexual needs. I didn’t understand at age 12 it was not over, nor would it ever be over. I did not understand that my abuse was something I would have to learn to carry.

My first lesson that it would never end came when I was 17. It had been five years since I had seen my abuser. I ran into him at a local town carnival. There he was pushing his newborn child in a stroller. He creepily proceeded to tell me how much he enjoyed changing the child’s diapers because he found it fascinating to look at the child’s anatomy – a flashback-inducing conversation that sent a cold chill down my spine. I was left paralyzed in fear. This was his own child he was talking about.

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