And so, while worldly people may hate us for those very values, they expect us to live by them.
What people fail to realize, though, is that the right response to hypocrisy is not to sanction the sins of the world or lower the standards of the church. The right response is to change our ways, put an end to our hypocrisy, reestablish our high standards, and then call the society as a whole to repent.
In other words, the right response to hypocrisy is not to say, "Because we've had a plague of pornography in the church, we'll drop out of the culture wars," Or, "Because we've had so many scandalous divorces, we'll drop our opposition to same-sex 'marriage.'"
Why in the world would we do that? Why would we sanction our neighbor's sin because we too were guilty of sin?
The right response is to repent of our own sin and then to call our neighbor to repent of his or her sin.
The right response is to say, "From here on, I turn from my sinful ways, and I urge you to turn from yours."
Somehow, people think that because we have been hypocritical at times then the solution is to drop all opposition to sinful behaviors. But that makes no sense at all.
If I am engaging in the destructive behavior of alcoholism but I'm encouraging you to break your drug addition, the right response to my hypocrisy is not to say, "I'm OK, you're OK." To the contrary, the right response is for me to get help for my alcoholism and to continue to encourage you to get help for your drug addiction.
Could you imagine a doctor saying to the patient, "We're ashamed to say this, but while we've been treating you for cancer, we've completely overlooked your serious heart condition, so to make things right, we'll stop treating the cancer"?
Of course not. In the same way, we don't stop exposing the sin of the world (or, worse still, condone the sin of the world, or even worse, celebrate the sin of the world) because we've had sin in the church.
Instead, we get our own house in order so we can help the world get its house in order. (Obviously, the best way we can help people straighten out their lives is by pointing them to Jesus and by setting godly examples.)
Thankfully, there are millions of sincere believers who have been living consistent lives and shining as lights in the dark, and they should go on shining brightly and clearly without shame or hesitation.
But where we have been hypocritical, let us acknowledge it, let us renounce it, and let us redouble our efforts to stand for what is right in God's sight, in both the church and in the society.