‘I didn’t believe it would produce any real result’ says son of abuse victim

By Patsy Mcgarry
Irish Times
July 30, 2014

http://www.irishtimes.com/news/social-affairs/religion-and-beliefs/i-didn-t-believe-it-would-produce-any-real-result-says-son-of-abuse-victim-1.1881950

Nicole Kane with her Mum Marie and the letter she received from the Pope.

Adam Kane (18) decided against sending a letter to Pope Francis with his mother, Marie, earlier this month. She was one of six abuse victims who met the pope in Rome on July 7th last.

Adam contented himself with decorating a letter from his sister, Nicole (14) and putting a seal on it instead.

He didn’t write himself as he felt “cynical”, he said. “I did believe the gesture [of the pope meeting his mother] was sincere but I honestly didn’t believe it would produce any real result.”

However, following reports of the meetings Francis had with his mother and the five other abuse survivors, he now believes the pope is sincere about the abuse issue “more so than his predecessor. It seems that way. I’d like to think so”.

Justice

He said he would like to see the pope “do what is right by the victims, by taking a harder line on bishops who covered up. They should be removed from power, be defrocked. Let’s see justice done”.

Adam had “pieced together” the story of his mother’s abuse in his early teens, and was then “told the gist of it”.

She had been abused by a priest over a three-year period until she was 18. He felt “very much shocked” at first. “I had been a devout Catholic. It led me to doubt. I’m now an agnostic, disillusioned.”

Where his mother was concerned, he said: “I don’t see her very differently. If anything I respect her more.”

Prior to meeting Pope Francis, Marie Kane also wrote a letter, in case she might not remember all she wanted to say. She handed it and Nicole’s letter to the pope at the same time. He replied to both.

‘Sadness and pain’

She told The Irish Times that in his reply to her, Pope Francis said he had read her letter “with great sadness and pain”. He said he was “doing his best to understand and respond to all I had shared with him”.

Today is the first time Ms Kane agreed to having her photograph published in connection with her recent visit to Rome. Her doing so now has been helped by Nicole posting a photograph of Pope Francis meeting her mother, on her Facebook page last Friday.