The Scandals, Fr. Benedict, and Moving On… (updated… Again)

By Michael Duffy
Father, Where Art Thou?
August 30, 2012

http://www.patheos.com/blogs/frmichaelduffy/2012/08/the-scandals-fr-benedict-and-moving-on/

An interview with Fr. Benedict Groeschel, CFR was recently published on the NCRegister website. It was quickly taken down, but not before it caused quite a stir. The Huffington post and the NY Daily News both picked up on it. Fr. Benedict is a remarkable priest – one that I’ve looked up to for many years. His book on Fr. Gene Hamilton helped me decide to become a priest in the early days of discernment. His comments to the NCRegister however horrified me.

“Suppose you have a man having a nervous breakdown, and a youngster comes after him. A lot of the cases, the youngster – 14, 16, 18 – is the seducer…”

“I’m inclined to think, on their first offense, they should not go to jail because their intention was not committing a crime.”

No matter what the circumstance, a priest must be beyond reproach. The priest is always, ALWAYS called to a higher responsibility. To protect. To serve.

The Church has done so much since the scandals first broke back in 2002. We’ve done more than any other major corporation in the world. The bishop should be applauded for their vigilance.

Back in 2011 Pope Benedict, Speaking to the Bishops of New York State during their Ad Limina visit said the following:

I wished to acknowledge personally the suffering inflicted on the victims and the honest efforts made both to ensure the safety of our children and to deal appropriately and transparently with allegations as they arise. It is my hope that the Church’s conscientious efforts to confront this reality will help the broader community to recognize the causes, true extent and devastating consequences of sexual abuse, and to respond effectively to this scourge which affects every level of society.

I can’t speak for anyone but myself – but I’m proud of my Church. I’m proud of my bishops for the work they’ve done to help protect children. But the bishops can’t be in this thing along. We need to be there supporting our bishops – every step of the way.

I thought we were beyond this. Beyond these mistakes, these wrong ideas. I thought we were better than this. With comments like these we prove all those people right who have slammed the Church for the last 10 years – that some in the Church haven’t learned anything.

We need to move on. We need to learn. Ultimately though, the Church will never be beyond this thing. And we shouldn’t be. We need to continually accept responsibility and ask for forgiveness. We need to be constantly reminded that we are here to be instruments of God’s love and mercy.

Some people will always think of the scandal when they see a priest. Comments like Fr. Benedict’s don’t help us move on, don’t help us to heal.