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	Pierce Victim Speaks out Courier August 28, 2009 http://www.bentoncourier.com/content/view/185542/1/ When First Baptist Church’s former music minister was convicted of sexual indecency charges Thursday, that action resolved the tragic situation for many people. David Pierce left the courtroom in handcuffs on his way to the county jail, awaiting transfer to a state Department of Correction facility. There are some individuals, though, who say the matter can never be fully over, that it will haunt them for the rest of their lives. They are the victims of Pierce’s years of calculated abuse. One of those victims, now in his late 20s, on Thursday shared his story with the Courier on the condition of anonymity. The victim said he spoke with Prosecuting Attorney Ken Casady about giving a public account of the experience. “I want people to know what happened, and I told Ken that I could handle it. I knew that David’s attorney would talk to the press ... but we as the victims wouldn’t get that opportunity ... so I’m the one that’s been blessed with the opportunity to speak for all of us.” The man said he “pretty much grew up at First Baptist” and was targeted by Pierce when he reached middle school. “David started showing an interest in me and a couple of my friends. He always had a group of three guys he was pretty close to. He told us Jesus had the 12 disciples, but there were three he was closest to ... that was his justification for choosing three.” This was how Pierce “sold it,” the victim said. “It was a cool deal to have this person you looked up to spiritually and musically showing special interest in you. We started going to lunch and going on drives. It was all innocent at first. “Then we started having what he called accountability time together,” he said. “David called it ‘the four S’s.’ He would check us spiritually, scholastically, socially and sexually. “The longer this went on, the more attention he paid to us sexually,” he said. “The questions became more pointed and much more detailed as things progressed. This led to pretty detailed conversations about masturbation, which evolved into some of the more inappropriate things. ... “This was a very systematic process and was basically brainwashing. ... It was probably ninth grade when it started to really get inappropriate, such as the ‘charting’ thing. This started innocently — he would measure our height and weight, just to see how we had grown and matured — and he would record it just to compare us as we got older and against each other. This developed into measuring our private parts, which led to a kind of mutual masturbation. “He would say things like ‘We’ve already done this. I can measure you, and we might as well finish. He would watch us and then he would do his thing.” While this activity was taking place, pornography was displayed on the church computer, the man said. “Once this started, this went on for years. Even after I was out of high school, it continued to occur. We would take fishing trips on the river — sometimes just David and me or sometimes him with two of us or sometimes with all three of us. “I knew at the time there were both younger and older guys involved, too, because of the charting and things he would say. “We’ll never know how many guys were affected — dozens, maybe triple digits — some who either don’t want to talk about it or can’t.” Ironically, the man said, Pierce never told any of the boys not to tell anybody. “He never had to. He was so good at what he did. I honestly believe the guy is a sociopath. “For me, it pretty much stopped when I got married, but David continued to pursue it. He would try to get me to go fishing with him, but I knew it wasn’t a fishing trip. I had realized by then that it wasn’t right, but that thought never crossed my mind at 16 or 17.” At the time he married, at a “fairly young age,” he hadn’t dealt with the problem. “I don’t think I was allowing myself to deal with it. ... When I was older, it finally hit me, but then it took me a couple of years of internally realizing that something wasn’t right before I could come forward.” By that time, the incidents had passed the prosecutorial statute of limitations. “It’s affected every facet of my life, especially the last two or thee years, and more especially the last nine months have been really difficult. “I was always very involved in church. Everybody that David chose was involved in church. He chose leaders in youth group, young people involved in the spiritual community of Saline County and at school, which was a pretty devious plan on his part. He knew that we wouldn’t say anything about what happened to us. ... “My wife and I went to First Baptist for several years. She didn’t know why I didn’t want to go ... or why I was miserable when I did go. She didn’t know that I was having to look at this guy up on the stage leading the music and knowing what he did to me. ... It had a big negative effect on my spiritual life.” The man who spoke to the Courier is now a member of another denomination and is attending church again and has undergone individual counseling as well as marriage counseling. Though he’s currently taking a break from counseling, he says it will resume. “I think it will probably continue for the rest of my life.” He said there’s no way to accurately describe the effects of his abusive relationship with Pierce. “Every single relationship you have is affected: relationships with your family, with co-workers, the ability to do your job, especially when you’re in the place where we as victims are now, smack dab in the middle of this legal stuff. You relive it every time something new happens. ... Different people deal with this kind of thing in different ways — some choose substance abuse; some have failed marriages; some will move away. “I’ve been lucky,” he said. “There’s been no substance abuse, no failed marriage and I’m still in Central Arkansas, but that doesn’t mean there haven’t been other issues. It’s like putting it away in a filing cabinet. ... I didn’t want to allow anyone to get close to me. I kind of turned from passionate and warm to cold. “I took the stereotypical male way of shutting everything off .... and it’s hard to have good relationships when you can’t be a caring person. “My wife and I are working through it and probably will be for the rest of our lives. Everyone has issues. ... Unfortunately, some of us, because of David Pierce, have bigger issues to deal with.” He acknowledged that there are people outside the local community who don’t understand how Pierce could have victimized so many boys for so long. “They don’t realize that David was not only a pillar of the church but also a pillar of Saline County. He was probably among the top 10 of the most-respected people here.” People also wonder how the abuse went on so long without anyone finding out, he said. “They ask why the parents didn’t tell their children this behavior was wrong. ... Well, yes, they did. People would be very surprised at some of the families we come from. They’re some of the most educated, well-respected people around, and some are well off. They’re all good parents who taught their children that things like this were wrong, but when you’re dealing with someone of David Pierce’s stature, all bets are off. There’s no way to raise a child to deal with someone like that. ... “It’s a very powerful tool for a predator like David Pierce to know that he didn’t even have to tell the victims not to tell anybody.” As far as the man knows, most of the boys chosen by Pierce were abused for years. “There may have been some guys stronger, who were able to put a stop to it sooner, but most couldn’t. For me, it’s been a long, drawn-out process.” He said he doesn’t blame people who have defended Pierce. “It’s easy to be on the outside looking in. Some of them say the punishment is harsh, it’s too much, it’s going overboard, that we should forgive and forget and move on. ... But I would urge those people to consider that there are those of us that don’t have the luxury of being on the outside looking in. “What they don’t realize is that for the rest of our lives when we hear of a case involving a minister or priest who has sexually abused children, these memories will come flooding back. Ideally, we’ll get better at it with time. ... “I don’t think our society really values the ability to empathize as a positive trait. ... But I would urge people to take a step back and think of all the people involved — the Pierce family, the members of First Baptist Church and the dozens of victims that are involved.” He said he doesn’t know how this tragedy could have been prevented. “I don’t think it could have other than somebody coming forward sooner. Sometimes you hear that there were incidents reported and a congregation didn’t do anything about it for years. ... For me, I can’t allow myself to believe somebody in authority knew something before now and said nothing. “Background checks are important, but that wouldn’t have stopped David Pierce,” the victim said. “David’s background check wouldn’t have shown anything.”
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