A woman whose partner told her she should forgive his physical, emotional and sexual abuse because “God has forgiven me” has described how spiritual abuse “creeps up on you”.
Grace, not her real name, was subjected to manipulation and abuse by a man she was dating, who used her Catholic faith against her and went on to rape her.
The 51-year-old’s then partner declared his love for her “in front of god” and later suggested forgiveness was “the Christian thing to do”.
It comes as campaigners raise awareness of spiritual abuse – a type of coercive control focused on faith.
The Catholic church said the abuse Grace experienced was “horrific” and it was working to offer more support.
It added the “weaponisation of forgiveness” was something it saw “very often”.
Warning: This story contains distressing content including details of domestic abuse, sexual assault and suicidal thoughts
